While commonly referred to as
emotions, guilt, shame and embarrassment are quite different from the
basic emotions of fear, anger, sadness and joy.
The three are always in the context of relationships and are often referred to as the social emotions.
Embarrassment is an
emotional
state occurring when a person has acted in a manner that is socially and/or professionally unacceptable
act or condition witnessed by or revealed to others. Embarrassment usually has the connotation of being caused by
an act that is merely socially unacceptable, rather than morally wrong. It usually involves social humiliation.
Shame is an emotional
state occurring when a person has acted in a manner that violates
social and/or cultural values and also is an act believed to be morally
wrong by others.
Guilt is an emotional
state occurring when a person has acted in a manner that violates
personal values. It would be possible in some situations to act in way
that others accept or approve but which personally is considered wrong.
As is evident, all three are closely related. Because of that people may use the terms interchangeably.
What is important to understand that each of these conditions will trigger the stress response.